Nerve Dating Confessions

This post really got to me because you sound so sad. Please think carefully about what you want in a man and make sure that is what you get the next time you meet someone. If you want to be treated like you are special, accept nothing less.

If you are just a booty call you have no right to expect anything from the guy other than a quick fuck when his girlfriend is busy. So don't go expecting him to change his lifestyle so it doesn't affect your world. You're just a booty call; it's not like you have feelings or anything

You need to find another FWB situation. It is clear that you have strong feelings for your current FWB and that never works. You want to be more to him and you are not, and it is not his fault if he does not reciprocate because he is playing by the rules. Sorry that you cried for 3 hours, but you need to rethink your current situation fast.

Have you ever had a FWB situation that was successful,OP? I know lots of people are doing it, and I'm not knocking it, but some people simply aren't made that way. It wouldn't work for me because I need certain emotions to be involved. Maybe you do, too?

Please stop hanging out with this guy, and definitely stop sleeping with him. He is not your friend, and the benefits aren't worth it.

dg: I was, and still am, deeply sad. It's unlike anything I've felt before. djc: He doesn't have a girlfriend, and I don't mind him seeing other people (because I do too), and yes I do have feelings. dmc: I'm rethinking it now. jj: I've had several FWB and/or booty calls that have worked with no drama; but then again, I never fell as hard as I have for this man; ss: Not sleeping with him, or not seeing him at all seems like an impossible thing for me to do at the moment, but I'll try. I wish he could love me.

Next time you are in the same place, walk over, introduce yourself, and ask him if he wants his jockey shorts washed, because they seemed to need it.

why do you guys all asume it is a girl. could be a guy that is hurt

I dont know the full situation so i cant really give all the advice I would like to give but maybe he turned up to that place that he knew you would be because secretly he likes you in the same way but is scared to tell you?

dsp: Then that's a really shitty way for him to have shown it.

If you are seeing other men, maybe he feels he has no other choice, but to make you jealous. Just tell him. The only damage that can be done, is to make what you already feel, spoken loud and clear.And if he walks away. He isnt worth being cried over. No boy is worth crying over, and the ones that are, dont make you cry in the first place. I wish you dearly, that all works out. I know how it is to see the one you love, with someone else.

I am so sorry, I know how you feel, you just brought me back to a club on Hollywood Blvd, mid 90's... watching the love of my life making out with his date and simulating oral sex with her on the dance floor. Ugh. Bastards!

Where is the "B" in this for you?

It sucks. I was in the same situation last year. I didn't bump into him with someone else but I found out he was seeing someone else through facebook. The really hard thing was that I stopped all contact with him and he chased me for 7 months after the 2 months we dated. You would think with all that chasing that he actually cared about me. He didn't. Some people can't be trusted, and you have to follow your gut and have the guts to walk away.