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September 5, 12:00PM i don't get why guys in new york (guys everywhere? thanks internet porn!) are obsessed with anal sex. it's degrading, and if you care anything about the person you're with, you shouldn't want to hurt them like that. the women in porn don't enjoy anal sex, they get PAID to have anal sex. maybe the better question is: why don't i get this 6 inch strap-on and fuck you in the ass? no? what's the matter, don't think it'd be enjoyable? CAN RELATE (116) CAN'T RELATE (357) FLAG FOR ABUSE

14 comments

Actually, my husband agreed to the strap on deal!

mn commented on Feb 11 10 at 10:37 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

i'm a woman and i enjoy anal. and nobody's ever paid me to let them do it.

az commented on Feb 12 10 at 4:17 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Hear, hear!!

SM commented on Mar 25 10 at 1:34 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Pseudo-science time. Just like some women like deep vaginal penetration as opposed to clitoral stimulation, some women do enjoy the feeling of anal sex. Some nerves are very close to the sphincter, and get stimulated in that fashion. PLUS it's taboo still, and that adds to the turn on. But some people, men and women, enjoy receiving anal sex. And yeah it can hurt. So did your first time. Did you stop having sex after that?

LL commented on May 6 10 at 3:15 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Your ass is way cuter than your face.

hb commented on May 7 10 at 12:00 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

umm... its cuz yer holes were made fer pluggin. open your mind girl-and maybe relax the ol' sphincter ;)

mj commented on May 26 10 at 5:57 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

There is nothing degrading about it. Anal is fun and many women enjoy it. I have no problem letting a woman strap one on if that is really something that will get her off. You are working with a lot of assumptions here that are false.

JJL commented on Jun 29 10 at 11:22 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

it IS degrading!!! All u guys should get fucked up the ass just for suggesting it.

yes commented on Aug 12 10 at 12:54 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm saving my anal virginity for the wedding night. I guess I'm still a little old fashioned that way.

lin commented on Aug 26 10 at 1:03 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Anal sex is degrading. That's why it's HOT.

tg commented on Sep 2 10 at 12:44 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Woman who enjoys anal here. My male partner keeps a strap-on harness and a number of silicone toys so he can get fucked too.

bp commented on Sep 11 10 at 2:56 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm woman in my 40's & did anal a few times in my 20's, mainly for experimentation. It was pretty hot actually. But b/c of the taboo, I never looked to do it more (& didn't do it at all with now-ex-husband). I see why it seems "degrading," but if you try it with the right hot person, you may be surprised how great it feels (esp. when penetration happens when you're getting ready to climax).

gtg commented on Nov 5 10 at 2:00 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Lol... could give a damn about the topic, this commentor is funny. Glad I found it.

Ry commented on Jul 29 11 at 12:34 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I love anal BECAUSE it is degrading.

HIS commented on Jul 26 12 at 7:52 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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