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February 17, 1:38PM Ever feel inadequate after getting rejected? She turned me down, and guy she is with now is much, well, better looking and taller than me, and as weird as it sounds looks more masculine than I, especially since I look much younger than my age. I know I shouldn't compare myself to others, but it's tough to not feel a bit inferior to this guy. CAN RELATE (7) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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Yeah, it's what all us guys go through all the time. Go and hit on other women. Seriously. Just numb yourself to rejection and don't let a girl in until there's some depth to your connection with her.

um commented on Feb 17 13 at 1:56 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

@OP, even George Clooney has probably gotten turned down. Not every woman wants a model type who looks like he plays contact sports. On the other side, supermodels get rejected. It's universal. Looks aren't everything. Haven't you ever been really attracted to a woman who is not technically beautiful but has a certain quality/look/charisma? If you aren't a movie star, focus on things that will attract someone you want - a sense of humor, knowledge of interesting things, etc.

RC commented on Feb 17 13 at 2:44 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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