Nerve Dating Confessions

February 10, 11:18AM Uggghhh! I suck at this. I can't tell if she is into me. We have so much in common. We seem to have a connection and text/talk with each other like we are teenagers. Went out last night and had fun, we laughed, and talked, and never at that awkward pause in conversation. So I think she feels the same way as I do and but also question if she does. Not sure if it is my lack of self confidence talking or what. But dammit she is awesome. #pleaseletthiswork CAN RELATE (2) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

5 comments

Why don't you ask her out and find out?

KE commented on Feb 10 13 at 11:22 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Sorry, I had to keep cutting words to get under the stupid 500 character count. When I say we went out, it was just the two of us on a date. And I know I should just ask, but i am afraid of ruining what we have developed so far.

op commented on Feb 10 13 at 11:33 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Quit worrying and over analyzing. I'm sure she likes you, but your fears and insecurities will drive her away. Trust me, I know from experience.

Tr commented on Feb 10 13 at 12:19 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Yeah. Seriously. Ask her out sooner than later otherwise you risk being friend-zoned. It's cheesy, but its also convenient that valentines day is next week. Ask her if she will be your valentine BEFORE valentines day. Like tonight. Then plan something for the 14th. And report back

Ok commented on Feb 10 13 at 5:09 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

So I text her the morning after our date to thank her for the night before. She responded that she woke up with a smile because she had such a good night. Last night I had an opening so I asked her to dinner on Thursday and she accepted. But I still am over analyzing, still questioning if she likes me. Seeing the post last night from the girl who forgot it was valentines day and is going out with a guy who has a crush on her now has me worried that is about me (irrational I know). I forgot how maddening dating can be. And it doesn't help I have felt so connected to some one so fast before.

op commented on Feb 11 13 at 12:13 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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