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February 7, 6:18PM I told you not to contact me anymore... since then I have daydreamed about slitting my wrists (something I have never actually done and wouldn't do, but sometimes I think it would be nice to feel something other than this ache). I have not had these thoughts since before we met. Did I make the wrong decision in letting you go? Is my subconscious trying to tell me something? CAN RELATE (5) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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Sounds like you should really address this, since you're hurting inside and just want to escape- at least subconciously. Reach out to him/her and find some peace and closure. It might be as simple as an apology, or forgiving yourself, or learning that they don't hate you. Good luck.

@op commented on Feb 7 13 at 6:29 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You're going to feel miserable about this person whether they are in your life or not. Right now, you are grieving which means healing. It doesn't mean you need to jump backward in time and traumatize yourself further.

fb commented on Feb 7 13 at 8:01 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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