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February 5, 9:27PM We've been together for three years and we have a beautiful baby boy; but I don't know if I'm carrying on with you for him or for me? I wish this was easy, leaving you scares me, but staying with you scares me more. Blah. CAN RELATE (1) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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Leave. Staying will only hurt everyone in the end.

em commented on Feb 5 13 at 9:31 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'd suggest getting counselling with your partner. Tackling this thing head on and quickly is critical. It's important to stay together if you can and you can be happy doing so. It's the best possible outcome for your son. But if you can't, you need to get out sooner rather than later. The longer you're together the harder it will be on your son when you split. It's not a decision you should take lightly but it's a decision you should not put off making.

aos commented on Feb 5 13 at 9:49 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

A baby is never easy on a relationship. Please try counseling. Sometimes what you really need is right next to you but help is needed to see it.

RC commented on Feb 5 13 at 10:14 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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