Nerve Dating Confessions

If you are a virgin how the hell can you compare bad and good sex... I mean you have no experience right? I'm not talking all the foreplay... just the PIV sex. If it's your first experience you are then comparing it to your expectations of what's good and that you will find out is not necessarily a good thing.

Uh, to person above- I am sure op knows she didn't get pleasure out of it. Subjective experience is not rocket science.

The first time is never good. It takes a while to know how to make it work.

doing it with a friend or a love is the most important part for me. I've had some bad sexual experiences in the past and when I think about it - it has all come from the same root cause - that I didn't feel comfortable communicating in the moment. Just being able to slow it down when I needed or being able to say when it didn't feel good - made all all all the difference. That's the advice I wish I had gotten when I was just starting out... That and to talk about it with friends. Good luck.