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January 28, 2:45PM I've cheated on you for over two years and I've become guilt-free about it. The fact is he gets me off hard and you don't, but I don't want to divorce you because you are a nice guy and a good dad to our kids. I hope you never find out. CAN RELATE (6) CAN'T RELATE (9) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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This is so horrible

c7 commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:51 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

trolololololo

@op commented on Jan 28 13 at 4:15 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I can sympathize and empathize with you, been doing the same thing for 5 years now. When my youngest graduates HS I am filing for divorce. Only two more years to go, so far my husband doesn't have a clue and I hope he doesn't until after the divorce is complete. TO THE POSTER ABOVE ME - there are millions of people living in loveless marriages that seek the attention of others, YOU need to grow up and enter reality.

LIZ commented on Jan 28 13 at 4:34 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

My ex-wife and I spent the last 4 years of our marriage as a so-called couple for the kids. We were both seeing other people but the kids became wise to it. She would go on girl-friend vacations and I would be away at work seminars way too often. The irony is we weren't cheating on each other, since we both knew, but we were cheating on our respective partners because we both told them that our marriage was sexless which it certainly wasn't.

st commented on Jan 28 13 at 4:45 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

If it's a loveless marriage on both sides, and the other partner doesn't care, then fine. However, from the original post it's clear this is a secret being kept. If the "lost love" was mutual, why the need to keep an affair a secret? The right thing to do is either tell the spouse out of respect for them, or get a divorce to avoid breaking their heart any further. I don't think I need to grow up for being concerned about what the cheating is doing to the other person. If the other one is cheating too, then fine. But if it's one sided, not okay.

c7 commented on Jan 28 13 at 5:03 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

i agree with c7.... troll. honestly, don't marry someone you aren't positive you are going to love forEVER. especially when kids are involved. My dad cheated on my mom and I am now in my fourth year of therapy because of it. Im 20.

awe commented on Jan 28 13 at 8:02 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

@awe no offense but that is an absolutely naive comment. People do marry people they think they will love forever but the FACT is that people change. My Ex was the love of my life but she became a mega fundamentalist christian and tried to force her beliefs onto me. She also became afraid to fly and I love to travel and refused to go sailing when that was a huge part of our lifestyle. People change and sometimes you need to divorce them.

CP commented on Jan 29 13 at 2:46 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

DIAF :) - the nice guy that gets cheated on

db commented on Jan 29 13 at 7:02 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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