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January 28, 2:08PM I've been in love with the same guy for almost 4 years. Our emotional affair has prevented me from moving on even though nothing as much as a held hand or kiss occurred. And pathetically, I don't want to get over it completely. I have never felt more loved, beautiful or seen than I did with him. I'm afraid to forget and terrified to still feel this way next year. CAN RELATE (3) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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You're waisting time on him.

cjp commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:28 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Good god girl, what are you doing? Stop wasting time! You need to move on. Please. Too many women get caught up in emotional affairs. They spend energy, time, heaps of love and for what? What is there in the end? A few empty promises and pretty words. You deserve better. You know you do.

/// commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:49 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Careful, look up imaginary relationships & love addiction. I was in the same boat, loved him for 3 years but no relations not even a kiss. He looked at me as best friend and I fell hard for him even when he said just friends. My imaginary relationship kept reading more into his actions, I didn't want to let go of the fantasy, in love addiction you love the high of falling for someone that is why you can't let him go. Life starts to pass you by and he goes merrily on with his while you're in agony.

MK commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:51 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You're wasting time on yourself - using this guy as a barrier for yourself not to feel attached to anyone else. So either stop making excuses for yourself and grab his fucking hand and kiss him... or take the emotional plunge with someone else and commit yourself to actually investing emotionally in a relationship.

@op commented on Jan 28 13 at 3:26 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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