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January 27, 8:44PM Women: how much touching is too much touching on a first date. I want to convey interest, but not overdo it. CAN RELATE (0) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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Do you hug people when you see them ? That can be a nice entry to the lower hand on the back and/or taking her hand ...

yy commented on Jan 27 13 at 8:52 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

i think its more in 'how' you touch: don't linger too long, don't squeeze anywhere (i.e. arms) girls usually hate that.... the leg is incredibly intimate so keep your hands closer to the knee. Smile. Girls love them smiley fellas ;)

awe commented on Jan 27 13 at 10:05 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Girls will give you some clues by how they respond with body language. It also depends on how you met and your rapport before the date.

jl commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:00 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

In today's world where a blowjob has become a goodnight kiss, there is no such thing as too much touching.

tru commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:36 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

It depends almost only on how attractive you are to her. @tru is quite wrong: maybe blowjobs have become as casual as goodnight kisses, but only for attractive men.

941 commented on Jan 28 13 at 3:31 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I think you should touch her only in response to how she touches you. Never escalate it. Your touching her is an acknowledgment that she should continue..... it's one of the ways women show interest. They always know when you're interested :-)

BOG commented on Jan 28 13 at 7:04 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

It depends entirely on her personality op. If she is an outgoing, gregarious person who is touching you, brushing against you, etc., by all means reciprocate. If she is shy, introverted, perhaps a bit cautious, keep touching at a minimum. As BOG says, take your cue from the woman herself. Mirror what she is doing. Be respectful.

808 commented on Jan 28 13 at 12:20 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

His balls slapping on your taint while he is doing you in the ass is too much touching for a first date

gb commented on Jan 28 13 at 2:39 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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