Nerve Dating Confessions

I don't know how it all went down, but try focusing more on your impressions of other people rather than their impression of you, especially since they sound embarrassingly rude. Did they seem weird or manipulative to you? Bad chemistry? Don't let yourself be ruled by other people.

It was an old friend of mine and his female friend who I had never met.. She was very generic and I put on a few nature videos, which might have made her feel weird, but I mean we were stoned. My cat also crawled in his lap and was sniffing his crotch. I just heard them say "weird" and "so awkward" after they left. I guess they could have been talking about something else. Sometimes I touch my legs or neck compulsively when stoned. I thought I heard her say "she was like grabbing her..." God, I am still high and feel so fucking mortified.

1. Don't be embarrassed. 2. Don't ever see those people again.

Thanks. I was hoping for some support, rather than ridicule here and I got it. I also swapped stuff with an ex-boyfriend today, which really sucked. It's hard to feel so lame.

How awkward and weird to overhear that! The irony... A little text sent to said people saying something along those lines is in order, I think. But quickly! Comedy is timing

fuck those motherfuckers. But also you were stoned. I literally always feel that way when I'm stoned. Maybe they felt like they were weird. Don't assume it's your fault, and don't assume that it's a reflection of the real you, but rather a reflection of the stoned you

It sounds like you're still not taking my advice. Try it after you've come down from your weird high. It'll be easier to trust your intuition about others when you've got full access to your own thoughts again. Oh, and don't hang out with those people.

Yeah, I texted my friend to say that I felt like things were weird. He seemed surprised and said he had fun. Maybe I will just tell myself that they were talking about something else and feel comforted. The chick he brought sucked and I'll probably never see her again.

Perhaps I do just need to come down. I feel way better already. Who cares if some boring gossipy girl thinks I'm weird for wanting to show my friend some deep sea creatures?

Whatever you're smoking, I want some! And I'd totally watch deep sea doco with you high!

Deep sea creatures are the best. Normal people are the worst.

I'm getting contact paranoia reading this. I agree with everybody else. Wait until you're straight and you'll probably look back and laugh.

In retrospect nothing I did was really that weird. Both of them kind of suck and it made me realize I need to go out and make friends with interests besides gossip and dating.