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January 26, 5:32PM Is it immature to ignore someone who wronged you after breaking up with them? So long as you were reasonable during the break up? CAN RELATE (0) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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I'm about 90% sure he cheated on me. And this was after he called me up drunk, belittled me for an hour, and then said he couldn't really feel bad the next day because he didn't remember. We went on 1 date in 6 months, and only because my parents gave me cash and wine to use at a BYOB for Christmas.

Op commented on Jan 26 13 at 6:02 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

It's not always immature to ignore someone. If you're done with the relationship and being in contact makes your life less happy, don't be in contact. If they're asking for an explanation for the breakup, give them a basic one; but you owe nothing more than that. You can both be kind and be firm that you don't want longer contact.

sun commented on Jan 26 13 at 11:31 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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