Nerve Dating Confessions
January 25, 9:52PM To be fair, Bad Girls have just as much dangerous mystique as Bad Boys. Everyone loves them, and loves to hate them. And they're better at the game than men are and get more diverse rewards. The problem is, neither Bad Boys or Bad Girls can shift gears and get feelings and still maintain the power position- which means aspiring to be bad is a hollow, fruitless pursuit. I road paved in sex and tears that leads to dying alone. CAN RELATE (5) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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op commented on Jan 25 13 at 9:53 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Bad boys, whores, bad girls....I don't like jerks and assholes, but all of this reductive labeling is still driving me crazy. Sure, sometimes men and women alike start acting like angry little sluts when they're feeling hurt or powerless. For some it's a serious habit that lasts for years or a lifetime, but sometimes it's just a phase that happens between relationships. And then there are those who are chronically abusive or controlling. "Fuck 'em" when I finally see them for who they are.... These broad terms haven't even moved anyone to be prescriptive, so what are we even talking about? Nobody's said a word about how men or women are supposed to be treated in an ideal world. So does that mean nobody cares?

@op commented on Jan 25 13 at 10:53 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

oh dear those men who feel angry, hurt, powerless don't turn women on as they think they are butthurt losers not bad boys the badboys who women adore are those too self absorbed to give a fuck about them except yes when they are selfish and maybe controlling or abusive.

tfc commented on Jan 27 13 at 7:18 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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