Nerve Dating Confessions

January 23, 3:25PM I am quite a reasonable fellow most of the time. But in dating, my brain responds to perceived slights like a coked- out gangster: "I ain't no punk! Nobody disrespects me! Middle fingers in yo face!" There are lots of ways to interpret scenarios, and I always pick the wrong way! CAN RELATE (10) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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I think we're all a little guilty of that. Too much "self-respect" and "make the girl/guy work for it" dogma. People are weird, as weird as we are. And yeah we can ignore red flags, or magnify things we should ignore. I'm struggling with that, too.

yep commented on Jan 23 13 at 3:52 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

lol @ coked-out gangsters on a date

@op commented on Jan 23 13 at 7:42 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Ironically that's the sort of manipulative crap that douchebags tell women when the act fades for a moment and they treat a woman with the contempt and hate they really feel for their victims: you are interpreting this wrong, I was joking, it is your fault for being oversensitive.

vgy commented on Jan 26 13 at 5:24 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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