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January 23, 1:25PM I want to spend one, non-stop, totally kinky night with a handsome man. Like not only would he bang me, but he'd make me lick up his cum from a table, or something like that. Guys talk a big game, but you'd be surprised how uncomfortable they are when asked to go a little outside the box. CAN RELATE (20) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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What has happened when you've asked guys to do stuff like that?

JS commented on Jan 23 13 at 3:22 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Not op here, but I agreed. I've had them cut and run just discussing those fantasies, even if I'm taking their lead. Or they pull back and cool off. I've had them explain, that it's too much- it comes off turbo slutty and they can't handle to it. I've had guys explain that though they like it, they want to be in charge of how the sex plays out. I even had an LTR who said it made him feel like there wasn't anything he could show me because I'd done it or thought of it all first, so he was super hard on his performance (without need. I like vanilla, too, and there was lots we never explored together because he had such a complex about it!) Been dealing with this since I was a teenager.

ns commented on Jan 23 13 at 4:49 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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