Nerve Dating Confessions

January 23, 8:21AM During a "what was your hottest OKC experience" conversation with a guy from OKC, he told me that he once met a woman from there for a first date, invited a bisexual female friend along at one point, then took both women home and had a threeway/anal sex with the girl he was on the date with. I've never judged anybody for their sexual choices but that story disturbed me. CAN RELATE (3) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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I'm with you. I'm not someone intimidated by my partner's sexual history but something about that story feels sketchy. Anal sex and a threeway the first time you hook up with someone? Either he's a sex addict or he's lying.

ss commented on Jan 23 13 at 8:42 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

It could have been a straight up agreed-upon in advance situation. I did a threesome on a first official date, but neither were strangers. I also did (very drunk) anal on two first dates. I'm not proud of any of this, it was a slutty winter brought on by a bad emotional time where I thought I was reclaiming my sexuality. I hope no one was coerced or heavily drugged and drunk to go through with this, and that he's not the only one who remembers it as hot.

or commented on Jan 23 13 at 2:44 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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