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January 22, 8:07PM You are a narcissistic, abusive, ass. I have no desire left to even want to fuck you anymore. It's just that if you are living in my apartment, I can't deal with you going out and getting yours, then returning home and pretending like we are a couple. That kinda fucks things up for me. I could stay out all night and fuckabout just like you on your trips. Unfortunately, all I really want is to settle down. So, I guess what's happening, is that you are determined to run me out of my own apartment. CAN RELATE (5) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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I wonder if this is how the live in gf of the asshole that's been messing with my heart feels. I've def been in that situation. If the other women knew that this wasn't a catch longing for the right domestic partner, they wouldn't go near his cock.

ya commented on Jan 22 13 at 8:31 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

this douche has a habit of stringing several people on at once. he just fucking can't let go. which is why i am back with him again. keeps his private life very private. like i don't find anything out until i go digging. basically, he's a stranger living in my house. no communication skills and will lie to my face.. now i'm stuck because he refuses to leave. if he moved out i would be able to say goodbye forever, but he doesn't want that. like a fucking gerbil in a cage, it's a continuing cycle.

yep commented on Jan 22 13 at 8:38 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

But you have to kick him out. It's no way to live, and no relationship is a democracy. You have a right to your mental peace and living space. If you are first on the lease, you can call the police, tell him you have an unwanted tenant, and they will watch him pack his shit and get out.

ya commented on Jan 22 13 at 9:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

OP, if it is your apartment, as in your name on the contract then you CAN kick him out. It's not a question of whether or not he wants to move out, if you don't want him living in your apartment you can kick him out. Like "ya" said, call the police if you must.

AD commented on Jan 23 13 at 1:16 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Kick him out. The situation is not fair or healthy for you at all! Guys like that are nothing but mooching losers.

goo commented on Jan 23 13 at 1:28 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I would hate for it to come to calling the police. Unfortunately, this is NYC and it's hard to get a roommate out of your place. There isn't much time on the lease, and I am the lease-holder. I am broke as a joke and do not want to lose my apartment. When I ask him to move he just outright refuses. I lost my job, and for the past 6 months he has also been paying all the rent, so he can prove I have been financially dependent. I've been in my place for years and it's a really good deal. He is trying to run me out. God, I need a lawyer. We aren't even married for chrissake.

yep commented on Jan 23 13 at 2:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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