Nerve Dating Confessions
January 18, 3:51PM A lot of these conundrums could be solved by being brutally honest about your feelings and asking the other person straight up what their intentions are, and then accepting what they say and moving on. A lot of women think "I will be the one to change him/I'm the exception," no honey, RUN as fast as you can for the hills!!! CAN RELATE (11) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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I was honest but he wanted our friendship sooooooo bad! Now we don't even talk:(

AS commented on Jan 18 13 at 4:04 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I posted this. In response to your comment AS, a guy saying he just wants to be friends is telling you exactly what he wants, so you shouldn't expect anything more. I always say if a guy wants to be with you, he will make it happen without excuses. Move on and find a guy who worships the ground you walk on! Good luck.

BE commented on Jan 18 13 at 4:10 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Thanks BE!! I felt compelled to comment because I was honest with him and just as he has the right to want to be 'just friends', I have the right to say, 'no thanks dude'! He really hounded me to be his friend when I knew I just couldn't do it. Oh well, he happily moved along and time heals all wounds!

AS commented on Jan 18 13 at 10:27 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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