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January 17, 11:06PM I miss having something secret, but I don't miss the fear and guilt. He is phenomenally bad at paying much attention to me at all, as a lover, except for the rare instance where we actually have sex, then he gives it a go, and is technically ok. But still, I decided to stay, and really mean it this time, so, I'll have to accept the loneliness that comes with being married. CAN RELATE (3) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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so, I'll have to accept the loneliness that comes with being married *to him*. I should have said it that way. I know marriage takes work, etc. -we've been working at this for years and years. I just don't think he has it in him to try any harder to connect with me, other than as a friend. I know it shouldn't be like this. It just is.

OP commented on Jan 17 13 at 11:16 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I understand. The "secret something" filled the void but did bring a lot of guilt. I'm trying to put a stop to it now. I know it's the right thing to do but it is really hard. Best wishes to you.

me2 commented on Jan 18 13 at 12:16 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Best wishes to you, too.

OP commented on Jan 18 13 at 9:11 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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