Nerve Dating Confessions

January 16, 10:14PM All of my dates have been failures. I have never had sex. I have never been in love. I don't believe that I'm capable of either. I fear being touched. I fear being desired. I fear any kind of connection, any risk of vulnerability and exposure. I fear any piercing of this armor that I have built over the decades to keep everyone out. CAN RELATE (9) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE

2 comments

You fear being desired? Surely it's better than what youre doing now. Everyone has to let people in, in order to have sex and love. It will hurt probably, definitely. But you won't die from it and you'll have a richer life as a result. dont be a chicken!

lk commented on Jan 16 13 at 10:32 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Get therapy, asap. It will transform your life.

srs commented on Jan 17 13 at 12:04 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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