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January 15, 1:07PM Why do men tease me for wanting sex as often as as badly as I do? This has been yet another guy to make a comment about it. I thought you wanted girls who want to fuck you?? CAN RELATE (12) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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They do but they want to be the ones who control it.

dmc commented on Jan 15 13 at 1:31 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I do want someone to want it as bad as I do. But dmc, I would say that I only want to control it maybe 50% of the time. The rest I want the women to initiate and be in control.

vfm commented on Jan 15 13 at 3:41 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I think some guys get intimidated if the girl they're with wants sex more than they do and don't really know how to handle it, so they deflect the situation as something that's wrong with you.

eQ commented on Jan 15 13 at 9:20 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The second this happens I shut down and ask for sex less. Men are their own enemy.

giv commented on Jan 16 13 at 6:31 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Don't ever listen to them. Rejoice. I'm a guy and my own drive is in a slump, but I'd still date you in a heartbeat, and if you needed more than I could provide, I'd find a way to make it happen.

td commented on Jan 16 13 at 8:30 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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