Nerve Dating Confessions

No you aren't just like I am not really still in love with the girl who hurt my feelings. It was so sudden and with seemingly no explanation that you are obsessed with understanding why. The only way to get him back is to actively not care about him

Understanding why.. that's a very interesting thought. I think I am obsessed with knowing why this guy has disregarded my existence after he dumped me in order to "figure and sort out" (see: rediscover) feelings for his ex. Why not even a close-ended "hope you're doing well" text? I thinks I'm also obsessed with getting some sort of apology

Been actively not caring for a year now. When am I supposed to get him back again?

Understanding why, sometimes there just isn't a reason, or you never get one. I had the same thing happen to me, I went over to my g/f's house of six months, we watched tv, cuddled on the couch. Then she told me I wasn't getting lucky OR spending the night, and she wanted me to leave about 11pm. I got up off the couch at 11, she gave me what must have been a 3 minute hug. I walked out the door, didn't hear from her again for 3 months, emails, phone calls all ignored. When I did get ahold of her 3 months later, she said I would have wanted to talk it out, whyshe did it. I'm 54, so it's not a youth thing. People can be immature at any age it seems, I disagree with noo above, I doubt you'll get him back, Better to move on, without hope of that happening. Then if perhaps he changes his mind