Nerve Dating Confessions

as a man that sounds extremely unfun. you want me to limp home?

Ugh. I do think that's normal man reaction but for me it's a throwback to when we were dating and we were just fooling around. Sometimes I think those aching for it days are good for us as a couple. No? I really enjoy the playtime. *sigh*

That kind of teasing better end in orgasm or I'm never dating you again.

Ok i see where you're coming from. Hot making out on the couch when you're a teenager. Dry humping. As long as we're clothed I could get behind it. But if you're going to half heartedly jerk me off for a long time, and then stop, and then start again, I really am going to be sore, and i'll have to excuse myself to go masturbate.

I would be we be cruel enough to start to jerk him off/give him head and stop just before he cums! Even as a woman I've gotten pretty vicious over that, lol. The stimulation of this tease is, like you said, a HS make out session. Shirts off, maybe. Hopefully. And I'm not mean either, if things go too far then I'm happy to make him happy, we'll just play another day.

"....good for us as a couple." You should get your partners opinion on that. Even if he says "Ok," to please you ... you don't want him sneaking off and playing with himself afterward; no matter how slightly, that sends the message that satisfaction doesn't happen in the bedroom or with you. Once you've had your fill and after he has played along, ... finish him.

@op, I think the "throwback" idea is really hot. I also miss the days when fooling around was a big thing and you didn't know how far you could get. Putting my hand up her shirt, dry humping, trying to get in her pants, sometimes getting to third, sometimes not. Those were fun days.

That's not the point I don't want him to cum. if a grown man can't handle a make out session that's not followed by sex without thinking that (suddenly) I am unable or unwilling to satisfy him in bed probably sees me as no more than a sex object anyway and in that case I don't want him. And why would I care if he plays with himself? When we're not together I'm sure he does, I do too. And if he gets himself off later while thinking of the fun we just had then that's hot for us too. Sex is way more than orgasms all the time. Why don't people get that?