Nerve Dating Confessions

January 14, 5:50AM It pisses me off that someone expects me to accommodate their inability - or rather their refusal - to communicate the way people are supposed to. It's one thing to decide not to call or send an e-mail; it's another thing to actually expect me to respond to passivity. Even if you are anxious and afraid of someone, that person is still entitled to be addressed with their own goddamned name if they're meant to even notice that you're referring to them. CAN RELATE (5) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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You don't get to decide how anyone else communicates, or does anything.

jh commented on Jan 14 13 at 7:57 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

@jh Excuse you. You're confused. The point of my confession is that no one else gets to decide how I communicate or do anything either. I'm not obligated to compromise my own standard of communication. You can be as passive as you fucking want but don't you dare try to say I'm wrong for ignoring that bullcrap.

op commented on Jan 14 13 at 8:34 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

And this coming from a girl writing on ndc?

Hmm commented on Jan 14 13 at 12:45 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

@Hmm Yeah, because I wrote this to purge not to elicit a response.

op commented on Jan 14 13 at 2:01 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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