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January 13, 4:51PM I hate my nose, hips, and feet. There. I said it. Are you happy now? You did this to me. CAN RELATE (3) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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Don't be so hard on yourself.

Jk commented on Jan 13 13 at 4:57 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm with Jk, stop playing the victim. Your self-image is a product of what ideas *you* allow. If you are feeling at the mercy of someone else's opinion of you, any part of you, then you might want to do some personal growth work, and strengthen your self-esteem. Meanwhile, you can be confident that there are more than a few someones who would love to appreciate your nose, hips and feet. Don't let one person (who may or may not be insensitive) control your self-image!

srs commented on Jan 13 13 at 5:03 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

@srs: what does "personal growth work" mean?

/// commented on Jan 13 13 at 6:34 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Therapy, self-help books, workshops. Anything that will improve people's self-awareness and prompt them in letting go of unhealthy patterns and attitudes. Google is your friend. ;-)

srs commented on Jan 15 13 at 2:13 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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