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January 13, 12:17AM BF said we'd go out tonight after not seeing me all week and cancelling yesterday. Tonight he says he'll call when home, around 1am just so we can go to bed. He wants me to stay awake for him but part of me wants to be too prideful to respond to his beck and call this way. Someone correct me, I should stay up and see him, no? CAN RELATE (0) CAN'T RELATE (3) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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If you really want to see him, then by all means. But it sounds as though he is your priority, but you are not his. And if you keep allowing it, it will always be that way. So I would say go to bed and let him miss out.

720 commented on Jan 13 13 at 12:27 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

update please?!

DM commented on Jan 13 13 at 8:26 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

He came home around 1:45. I had fallen asleep with a headache not long after I posted this. I woke up at 4 am to 3 texts, a missed call and a voicemail from him. I think by the look of his texts he came to my house to pick me up. I didn't head to bed and try to sleep just to 'teach him a lesson' or anything, I figured if I fell asleep my phone would wake me but it didn't. Had he woken me up I would have gone to him but I'd be awake until 3 or 4 at least and been miserable. I guess it worked out as it should have. He did the right things, he called me and updated me both days on his change in plans, I don't think this is indicative of poor treatment from him, he just had somethings going on this weekend, was trying to see me in the midst of it and it didn't work out. I felt really bad about not seeing him because I've definitely missed him and wanted quite badly just to fall asleep next to him. Oh well.

op commented on Jan 13 13 at 10:52 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Treating him like Pavlov's dog, eh?

eek commented on Jan 13 13 at 11:43 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I suppose you can't read well?

@ee commented on Jan 13 13 at 11:47 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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