Nerve Dating Confessions

He should have his testosterone levels checked. It'll make him feel better in all sorts of ways if it's low and he gets it corrected

He's in his 40's and you're only 'seeing him'. He doesn't communicate. I am going to make some inferences, which are based on the assumptions that he isn't passionate about you, and your emotional connection is not strong. Those problems are indicative of the fact that he just doesn't care too much about relationships anymore. In fact he probably didn't want a relationship at all, and was only interested in sex, and thereafter went along for the ride. He's been around the block enough to at least value having a sex life, he takes cialis, so he thinks of himself as a sexual entity, and he probably cheats on you but doesn't see it as cheating, because he's happy with the arrangement of having someone 'around', but not having to invest emotionally, whereas for him sex is only an interest in a passionate sense. All men like the chase and can be enthused about it. If he isn't enthused with you, though, you have to ask yourself whether or not you are fine with only having sex once per month, or less, with someone who eventually only becomes at best a friend.

He is a bit obsessive with appearances and working out and all / has a personal trainer. I feel like it's more of a thing where he is hiding something, maybe drugs. I'm not unattractive, I've never run into something like this from anyone else I've been with. From what I hear, coke makes guys useless in bed... which would explain a lot. Any coke users out there that can attest??? I kind of thought it would turn a guy on, but friends have said they've been with guys on coke and they are useless. Other things that weird me out: he uses nasal spray on a daily basis and often sounds congested. Maybe the Cialis is being used to keep it up because the coke is making him impotent. I'm a bit naive, because I've never tried it. Every time I try to communicate on what is going on he just shuts down.

You may very well be right. I dated a cokehead who couldn't get it up. One time he took viagra, and even then, it was difficult for him to maintain. Needless to say, we didn't date very long. Nasal spray is highly addictive, and congestion is a sign of coke use.

If he is addicted to nasal spray from trying to keep his nose clean, he is using coke more than occasionally, so his dick is numb. Cialis + coke mix is a fast recipe for a heart attack, and he care more about feeding his addiction than using his cock. I know a fair amount of guys who use coke to motivate for their workouts, too. A crap lifestyle and vanity often go hand in hand, inexplicably.

Being addicted to coke (or any drug) can also make you have to avoid people a lot. You have to avoid them while you're doing the drugs (because they might notice you're fucked up) and also while you're recovering from doing the drugs because you tend to feel like shit and want to be left alone.