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January 12, 5:54PM SO many times my boyfriend will stop fucking me to ask, "what do you want? tell me what to do" and I just don't know the answer!! It's so frustrating. For both of us I'm sure. CAN RELATE (2) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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I've realized that guys are more prone to asking this question when they feel like they're not getting an elaborate enough response (moning, hair tossing, dirty talk etc). If you're guys one of those who likes a show, than exaggerate a bit (There is a big difference between slight exaggeration for added effect and straight up FAKING pleasure mind you.) Tell the boyfriend to ask those sort of questions before the sexy times begin

KDA commented on Jan 12 13 at 6:18 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

He's getting a response from me but I think he does it when he feels like I should have cum and I haven't or he feels like I'm struggling to cum. It's true that when he asks I don't know what we should do, like what position is better or how he should touch me differently. On the rare occassion that I have an answer for him I'm suddenly too shy to say it outloud. sigh.

op commented on Jan 12 13 at 6:56 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Easiest thing is to make happy noises when something feels good and be quiet when it doesn't. If you have trouble verbalizing, just use one word at a time. If it needs a more detailed explanation, talk about it when you're not in bed.

lb commented on Jan 12 13 at 11:30 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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