Nerve Dating Confessions

Enjoy those moments. You won't even get that much when you're married to her.

tru: Why do you think every woman is exactly the same? We are not. You accuse feminists of thinking men are all the same (I am a feminist, and I do not), but then you go and do the same damn thing.

Actually, I was speaking specifically in regards to the op's girlfriend. Why, wsh, do you assume that my view of some women applies to all women?

having somebody say that would kinda ick me out if I wasn't in the mood.... actions speak louder than words.

I dont understand women... and Im a woman! If my bf told me he wanted to lick my hot body up and down I'd jump on him in a second--whether I was in the mood or not.

Hmmm...I guess it could be strange coming from nowhere. But I love my woman! I hold nothing back when telling her how much I want her, and things I fantasize about doing with her . She's crazy busy and stressed with work, but still, it seems like all of my efforts lately have been met with the same lack of enthusiasm. This last exchange just really got to me.

You could just be approaching this wrong. Show her affection that is not blatantly sexual. Do something nice for her. Have dinner prepared when she gets home, offer to rub her shoulders when she crashes on the couch, stroke her hair while she watches TV. It's these sorts of things that prime women for sex. I for one LOVE physical contact and the more there is the more I am ready for sex at a moments notice. I desperately want my BF to kiss every square inch of me, but I would giggle and go on about my business too if he said it so off hand. I'm sure it's not that she doesn't want sex, you're probably just misreading each others cues, or because she didn't respond to your comment, later in bed when she looked at you sweetly, you didn't take the opportunity to kiss her because she'd ignored you earlier. Communicate in general about what she needs from you if your actions don't work. But seriously, start with the little things. Touch her sweetly, be thoughtful, I swear it helps.