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January 10, 5:32PM For the guys: I have big boobs and a nice round ass and green eyes. i laugh and am friendly. I'm social. I am down to do pretty much anything in the bedroom and am a pretty chill person. I workout. Why the fuck have i never been asked out?! I'm nearly 20. I'm so sad. CAN RELATE (10) CAN'T RELATE (4) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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either you have missed hints, or you are doing something specific to keep guys away. if you are as attractive as you say you are, and are not in a all ladies convent, guys shld definitely be asking you out...

qq commented on Jan 10 13 at 5:36 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I actually think it's because you're so young. Guys under the age of 21 do much less hitting on girls than older guys do, and older guys prefer to date girls that are at least 21. People change and mature so much during the ages of 18-21 that even a few years age difference can make a difference.

lp commented on Jan 10 13 at 6:54 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

That's wrong, I was hot on plenty in my younger years. The question can't be answer because we don't know her. Perhaps she's doing too much of "anything in the bedroom" too soon, especially with young guys who do so little of caring about much else.

@lp commented on Jan 10 13 at 7:53 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

i second what lp said...you have to be around older guys, smile and flirt, you'll be beating em off with sticks.

sls commented on Jan 10 13 at 7:54 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Stop waiting for it and go get the things you want. Because when guys do start asking, you're notgoing to be interested in most of them. The most likely way to get what you want from life is to do it yourself.

Ni commented on Jan 10 13 at 8:30 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

beware of the " stink-face" syndrome. That'll scare 'em away..

LL commented on Jan 10 13 at 9:01 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You see I actually get this. I am a goodlooking tall muscled dude who is pretty friendly and such. And I don't have the devoted female following (at all) that people would expect. I can't explain it either. Some people just fall through the cracks I guess. Maybe we should date op ;)

ooo commented on Jan 10 13 at 9:48 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I feel like I didn't get hit on as much before I was 21, and progressively got hit on more and more as I got older. I think younger people are still getting in the groove of dating, especially if they were like me and were deeply focused on school or other interests. I don't think it will be a problem as you get older. Just focus on yourself for a little while. Maybe you are not spending time in environments where you meet a lot of people. It's not like you can get into bars or clubs.

ss commented on Jan 10 13 at 11:06 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Hm, I wonder if the op is so attractive that the young bucks are intimidated, or think a girl that hot must already have a bf...OP, what do you say?

srs commented on Jan 11 13 at 2:44 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

hello all, thankyou so much for the advice... i don't know what I'm doing wrong because 1) I'm canadian so i can drink, and 2) i am very friendly.. I'm discouraged i guess. SRS, i have been told i am intimidating because i have very intense features, but if I'm smiling isn't that welcoming?? OOO, im glad there are others out there lmao, if only this website wasn't anonymous eh?

OP commented on Jan 12 13 at 1:59 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The face matters. I got a nose job and I attract a lot more guys now. I'm also a lot more confident though...

Uhh commented on Jan 12 13 at 8:04 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

@Uhh, I've always been so terribly self conscious of my nose. Fucking hate it. If my nose is the reason I am still alone I am so over trying.

OP commented on Jan 13 13 at 4:49 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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