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January 10, 12:42PM I think I need professional help. My BF/Love of my life broke up with me just before thanksgiving, I cry every day and then I get drunk at night and fuck random men. Since Thanksgiving I have had sex with 9 different guys, most without protection and I am doing crazy shit. On new year's eve I took a guy outside of a bar and had anal sex in his Tahoe, I've never had anal sex in my life and think it's ewwww, worst part I don't even remember his name. CAN RELATE (5) CAN'T RELATE (8) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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tr commented on Jan 10 13 at 12:57 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The first thing is recognizing there's a problem, so it's good that you do. Seeking help if often difficult but at least you know you have to, which is more than a lot of people can say about themselves. Good luck and please take care of yourself.

KE commented on Jan 10 13 at 1:57 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

That's sick!!

ft commented on Jan 10 13 at 2:35 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You rock! You are awesome.

HS commented on Jan 10 13 at 3:03 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Wow. You are absolutely amazing.. Keep up the good work. I hope you are doing anal to completion without condoms. Good job girl! I am so proud of you.

RG commented on Jan 10 13 at 3:10 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The OP sounds bitter which is not attractive, and a player who uses and discards partners she objectifies for sex. Woman up! And get a positive attitude if you want to find someone new, if you can drop treating other people as sex objects.

ooo commented on Jan 10 13 at 3:32 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The first step in not being a fuck up is to stop fucking up.

tru commented on Jan 10 13 at 5:19 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

So you remember the name of the car but not the name of the guy? That's fucked up. Get some help. I do not mean that in a flippant, snarky way. I mean: Get. Some. Help. Now. YOU NEED HELP. You are hurting, you are trying to punish yourself, you need help. And for fuck's sake, get tested! Your reckless stupidity has consequences, for you and for others. Get help.

808 commented on Jan 10 13 at 5:57 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You slept with a guy who has a Tahoe? Oh boy.

Lk commented on Jan 10 13 at 6:28 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I agree with 808 above, times five

ag commented on Jan 10 13 at 7:33 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Go to a doctor NOW!!! Tell him what is going on, ask for help. Don't wait another day because you are at your critical peak of destruction right now! Ask to be pec'd for inpatient treatment and explain that you can't stop unless someone helps you. Please do it now.

vy commented on Jan 10 13 at 9:36 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You go girl! I wish more women were like you.

FF commented on Jan 10 13 at 9:38 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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