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January 10, 3:26AM This is not a confession but a question rather. I'm a sophomore in high school and I still really like this girl from last year. I have never ever talked to her and she probably doesn't know I exist even though we had a class together. The only way I can talk to her now is through Facebook and friends of friends. Please help by commenting. CAN RELATE (2) CAN'T RELATE (3) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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that is actually not a question at all. What is it you want to know? How to talk to her? Go up and approach her in school, not on facebook. Just chatting, no agenda, no asking her out. Do it some more times, start teasing her, joking around. See if she is happy to see you: does she laugh at your jokes, touch you? Then you can ask to hangout or go to a gang bang, whatever kids are doing these days. The thing you have to remember (that I wish someone had told me:) women mature faster that guys. You being the same age as her, you are almost certainly too young for her. She wants to date the seniors.

um commented on Jan 10 13 at 5:04 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Your advice was good UM until you did the buzz kill at the end. How the F would you know she only wants to date seniors. Hey OP. here's the deal: Go for it. Approach her directly (like UM said) look her in the eye and talk to her like a normal person. Find out what she's interested in. In the whole scheme of things you have absolutely nothing to lose and everthing to gain. And if you don't do this you will regret it for the rest of your life. Go for it Dude!

MGW commented on Jan 10 13 at 10:13 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

You should go for it. You never know what might happen until you try and like MGW said, you will regret it if you don't at least try. I see nothing wrong with asking her out thru facebook, text or even in person just as long as you let her know your interested who cares how you do it. Best of luck!!

xox commented on Jan 10 13 at 10:26 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Oops. Yah I guess it was kind of a buzzkill. Do it because she might say yes! And life is short. But if it doesn't work out, don't feel bad, you'll have gained some experience, and at least you'll have a reason why

um commented on Jan 10 13 at 4:48 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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