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January 9, 4:23PM A friend has been away for 2 weeks for work. Last night his live-in GF texts me as asks if I want to "come over and hold me tonight because I don't want to sleep alone." I didn't answer then she sends me pic of her in sexy lingerie and says please. I didn't go, QUESTION: Should I tell/show my friend the text when he gets back? CAN RELATE (1) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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You never know how someone may react to the truth. Worse case scenario: he gets mad and accuses you of leading her on or something. But if he is a really good friend I would tell him regardless. You don't want him to ever be able to say you weren't there for him

AJ commented on Jan 9 13 at 4:28 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

You have to tell him because if she asked you she will or has probably asked other guys. And some will jump her bones, better he know now.

jg commented on Jan 9 13 at 4:41 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

my question is why you didnt go ?

joe commented on Jan 9 13 at 4:52 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Depends on how close you are with your friend. For my closest friends, there's no question that I would tell him/her. What's more important: your relationship with this friend of yours, or the avoidance of problems that may arise when you spill the beans?

djg commented on Jan 9 13 at 6:41 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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