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January 9, 9:48AM I feel like I will never get over her and it's tormenting me.. What should I do? I #needadvice - please give me something I can work with NDC, I feel like I'm dying inside. CAN RELATE (9) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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Grief is a process and takes time. Journal, tell the story over and over to yourself. Eventually things will change.

wrh commented on Jan 9 13 at 10:51 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Have sex with someone new. It will help you realize that you can feel excited and exhilarated with someone other than her.

Hlp commented on Jan 9 13 at 10:53 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Yea, time heels all. Figure out what makes you happy (other than her), and immerse yourself in that. Lean on your friends and family. I had friends that I talked to, and I had friends that just knew that I needed things to do and they were great about keeping me busy. Be positive about everything in life. Do things like volunteering. And make a conscious effort to be happy. When you are feeling down, recognize you are, then try to focus on something that makes you happy. Good luck.

303 commented on Jan 9 13 at 11:23 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

You will not get over her. It is one of life's cruel tricks.

Ha commented on Jan 9 13 at 12:58 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm sorry you're going through this, op. Distract yourself with work, with fun, with laughter. And when the wave of heartache comes, when it washes over you, sit with it for awhile. You will get through this.

/// commented on Jan 9 13 at 2:07 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Thank you all. I need to get back to doing things I love that never involved us I guess. Ha- I hope you're wrong and that I can actually smile about it and her one day without feeling sick.

op commented on Jan 9 13 at 3:57 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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