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January 8, 7:13PM I had sex. But more notably, for the first time ever I had sex with a new guy even though I wasn't expecting it, hadn't cleaned the bedroom or put clean sheets on, had just put on 5lbs over the holidays, and wasn't perfectly shaved. And holy shit, the world didn't end and he didn't shriek in horror! CAN RELATE (27) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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You're off the hook this once, but don't let it happen again. And I mean specifically the shaving.

MTY commented on Jan 8 13 at 7:51 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

LOL I promise it was one day missed, not an out of control forest!

op commented on Jan 8 13 at 9:00 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

The last guy I slept with was unexpected in unchanged sheets and about two weeks before my next waxing appointment (gross) - he's still around months later. I think you'll survive the missed day of shaving ;)

aa commented on Jan 8 13 at 11:36 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Some of us don't like excessive shaving... A little trim, if you must, but natural is fine too. Everywhere.

pop commented on Jan 8 13 at 11:48 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

As a guy, I would say it doesn't have to be all perfect. As long as there are no "surprises" down there, it's all good. As far as clean sheets is concerned, as long as your house isn't disgusting it's all good, doesn't need to be spot less. Just be confident and comfortable and that will go a long way n

Erc commented on Jan 9 13 at 12:38 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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