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January 8, 6:59PM I hate being the woman. I hate having to be the one to wait, to play hard to get. I hate how men don't respect women if sex happens too soon. I hate having to control my insane sexual drive in order to be "classy". I hate what porn has done to men's expectations of women. CAN RELATE (20) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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you don't have to be. you are just with the wrong men.

uh commented on Jan 8 13 at 7:05 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

So how do you find the right Men?

@uh commented on Jan 8 13 at 7:18 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

What to women mean when they say "men don't respect women if they have sex too soon" anyways? I treat women I have sex with the same whether it's the first date or the 6th

sg commented on Jan 8 13 at 7:45 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I'm a guy and feel like I have to wait and play hard to get. So really, it happens regardless of gender. From my viewpoint, I don't think it's porn that's the culprit but just societal norms as a whole.

KE commented on Jan 8 13 at 7:46 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

how to find the right men? just be yourself. if he doesn't like it, then oh well. i've never really had a problem with this.

uh commented on Jan 8 13 at 8:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Move to Europe... the men will adore you

@op commented on Jan 8 13 at 10:16 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Wait... are you saying that porn has conditioned men to expect women to be harder to get in bed?

AAA commented on Jan 9 13 at 1:13 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

aha, no. definitely not. Porn gives men the expectation that girls with immediately blow them. simply stated.

AAA commented on Jan 10 13 at 5:24 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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