Nerve Dating Confessions

try to always phrase things in a way where he feels compelled to ask a question. the qualities of a good story teller leaves the listener wanting to know what happens next. you can keep this going a long time with the proper phrasing.

keyword: DON'T want to have a conversation

So you would prefer to talk rather than text? That depends a lot on the girl's preference. Compromise a little. I've had a couple semi bf's who wanted to talk rather than text and I got exhausted. I like texting, it's low pressure, especially getting to know someone. Tell her you want to hear her voice and that texting isn't as natural of a way to communicate.

I'm a girl! I mean how do I know a guy doesn't want to even hold a conversation with me by what he says via text?

If the person texts short responses and just answers your questions and doesn't ask any questions of their own. If they put no effort into their responses, take a long time to respond, and never initiate, I would say that's not a good sign.

First thing to do is disabuse yourself of the idiotic notion that anyone is "desperate" if they cross some ethereal line. This goes for women and men, and more likely, boys and girls. Here's the rule: If you want to have a true conversation with someone, pick up the phone, and use the phone app. You know, the old school one where voices get transmitted live, in real time. Amazingly, you get instant feedback, nuance, tone, eliminating a ton of guessing, angst, and yes, NDC confessions. There's wealth of information in the sound of someone's voice that you'll never get with any form of typing. Amazing how that works, huh?