Nerve Dating Confessions

It makes me sad to hear things like that, because it means your marriage is dead. It's too bad you let things get that bad, meaning both of you. It's not inevitable that a marriage dies. That's a common misconception many couples therapists would be happy to correct you on. Unless that's exactly what you want: a show marriage for the public (the nice house, the yard, the pool, vacation photos, whatever) and a kinky sex life on the side. If your ego is huge enough you could convince yourself that you're having your cake and eating it too. But you WILL be found out, because you WILL get careless, as this becomes habit, and you WILL lose it all and end up with nothing but your own tail between your legs. So to speak.

I recommend the book Mating in Captivity: Reconciling the Erotic and the Domestic. It doesn't condone cheating, but it does talk about how an affair can recharge both peoples' sexual spark, and the evolutionary science of jealousy. Try this article, too http://www.blisstree.com/2011/04/25/sex-relationships/an-affair-may-be-the-best-thing-that-happens-to-your-marriage/

you're gonna get caught. Some will say that you're asking to get caught. I don't know that. But, you're going to get caught.

Hope you get what you deserve.

Ew. You're gross op