Nerve Dating Confessions

It feels dirty being a banker.

Best of luck to you. I hope you don't ever have to do that again. Truth be told though, I would do it for my son if necessary. Try.your local churches if ever in the same position. My mom and I relied on then several times in the past while trying to make ends meet.

How much did you earn?

@00 - Thanks I tried two churches but no luck and time was running out. Had to have the money today or get thrown out. I have two job interviews next week so I have my fingers crossed. The funny thing is I worry about wether my son will ever find out (no reason he should) but I would never want him to know that his mom did that.

@Abc 2 guys - $ 400; one guy wanted something special and he paid $300 to get it. I took my ad down after I made the money but I think I could have gotten more work if I kept the ad up. I was worried that the guys would be old, fat ugly men but the first guy was a very young military man and the kinky guy was a pretty good-looking, in-shape 30-something married man.

Be careful. If you screen properly it can be fairly safe and lucrative. Reach out to other women in field for advice.

@Abc I don't plan on doing it again, although the married guy asked if he could come back and I think I would be more relaxed because he was pretty cool. But still I don't like the idea of selling myself I just did it out of desperation and for my son.

What did the first guy want? The other got it for 100? You are giving it away too cheaply!

Most guys that see escorts are going to be married. I know, I am Good luck and be safe

@Ack The first guy just got 30 minutes of regular sex, the second guy wanted what is called a girlfriend experience with greek (greek means anal sex, A GFE means we made out and acted more like we were a couple rather than the 1st guy I nicknammed the jackhammer.). In my area escrot ads were ranging from $60 - $200 per hour and I priced mine at the top end.

In ny gfe with Greek will get you at least 6-800 if you are ok looking. Where do you live?

Sorry that last post was for PAL not Ack. @ Ack why is that - are married men not getting any at the house or are they just looking for variety? My 2nd guy said he did this because he like anal and his wife would do that so I guess I can kind of understand that.

Lots of reasons. Variety,excitement. Someone focused on their pleasure. May be to scratch a specific itch like anal or other links. In most ways easier and safer than an affair. A way to step out with less risk if or emotional attachments.

@ Ack - Without tooting my own horn most guys say I am very good looking I'm mid 20's 5' 7" 120 lbs with natural C cups and a very nice firm ass. Almost no-one believes that I have had a child and most people say I look very young. I live on the west side of the country but in a smaller city 200,000 people. Our economy is not very good and this city is doesn't have a lot of wealthy people. I looked at 4 weeks of ads and not one person was above $200 for one hour and there were many $100 specials from good looking women.

You don't pay an escort to come, you at them to leave

Thanks to everyone here - so far you have been supportive and non-judgmental and I appreciate that. Let me reiterate that this was not my first choice and I am not proud about doing it but it was in many ways much easier than I thought. I guess the two cool guys that I had made the experience tolerable and everyone here has been cool too.

I know where I am going on my next business trip!

You sound like a good mother and person. Good luck. Hope things work out for you

Thanks again Ack, it felt really good to get this off my chest, nobody knows here not even my best friend who watched my son, I just told her I was going out. I hope I get a job next week and can put this behind me, save up some money and move to NYC where the real money is. . . . . . . . . just kidding.

WOW, just saw your post and wanted to say Hi, I was in your shoes last summer and went the route you did, I have two kids and a deadbeat exhusband. Unfortunately I had to keep doing it for several months to before I got work again. Be very very careful, carry mace, I was attacked once and got beaten pretty badly, the second time I maced the guy and got away. Regulars are your friends, they are safe, so if you need to keep going try to do it with your second guy you will have to give discounts. I don't know where are you are but the police around me was really cracking down and having lots of stings. Asking if they are a cop is not the answer they are allowed to lie no matter what people tell you. Ask to see their genitals, if they refuse walk away. I also had a friend that knew what I was doing and she would know where I was going and a drop dead time that I would have to contact her otherwise she would call the cops. And your prices are very similar to what we have where I live.

I am a pretty straight laced guy, but I can't say I blame you. I would lie, cheat, steal, or whatever to protect/provide for my family. I pray for you that it is a one time thing. But if it is not, heed the advice of ann and protect yourself, be as safe as possible. Good luck to you.

Ann thanks for the tips and thanks 303 for the best wishes. Yes I pray to that it was a one-time event.