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January 4, 11:53PM A guy asks if we can got on a date Friday night and I say yes. (this was Tue.). Wed comes and he asks if we can hang out that night (not in lue of Friday-he just "wanted to see me"). But it doesnt work out and we resolve for Friday. Thursday rolls around and he again asks if we can see each other that night. I'm busy so no go. Its Friday night... I've been looking forward to this and nothing. I hate these let downs. This is crap. And now I have to decided if I even want to keep talking to him... CAN RELATE (3) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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sounds to me like he's flaky. probably had other dates lined up that fell thru. so wanted to use you as backup. but they went thru after all, or you were busy. this guy sounds no good. you don't need a player.

ee commented on Jan 5 13 at 12:00 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

IT'S "IN LIEU." ARGH CAN NOONE SPELL?

SPL commented on Jan 5 13 at 12:02 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

He is an attractive guy who has a pipeline of girls to date, and he tried to reschedule your Friday date earlier because he realized that his main Friday date was very likely to happen. But @EE the @op needs a player, because she would not date losers so unattractive that they don't have a pipeline of main/backup girls waiting to to hangout with him. Freud said that he did not know the answer to the question: what does woman want? We now know: a player who is more attractive than her so that he has several better options than her but instead commits to her for no reason.

BNM commented on Jan 5 13 at 6:14 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

@BNM, I am amazed at this site and how people will jump to conclusions based on almost no information and then attack the op and shame and blame them. Where in op's post did the op say this guy is an 'attractive guy with a pipeline of girls to date'? Your speculation about the op being a stupid women who seeks out attractive players and refuses to date 'nice guys' is nothing but a speculation. As for the rest of your bitter rant about what women generally want, I'll tell you what women DON'T want: bitter and hateful men such as yourself.

AD commented on Jan 5 13 at 9:03 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

What 'AD' said.

yep commented on Jan 5 13 at 1:36 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

BNM is obviously speculating but that doesnt mean he's wrong. this is a blog not a court of law with rules of evidence.

gap commented on Jan 5 13 at 8:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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