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January 4, 1:38PM I wish I could re do the last few years of my life. There were some good bits but I would have completely different decisions and gone in a completely different direction. I'm turning 30 in 13 days and I feel like I wasted my 20s. CAN RELATE (14) CAN'T RELATE (0) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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Had the same feelings at 30, so I got a divorce (was very unhappy), went back to school, and dedicated myself to making me more of a priority. Spending less time worrying and more time on the positives was and continues to be great.

khm commented on Jan 4 13 at 2:34 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Hindsight is 20/20, everybody has things they wish they would have done. Had I known I would be divorced @30 from the girl I spent my 20's with I definitely would have done some things different. But I made the best decisions I could at the time and have no regrets. 30 is still young, you got a lot of life to live (that was emphasized to me by my friends who are 40ish, how I was lucky my situation happened when I was young). So live with no regrets, that is just a waste of emotional energy. Focus on today, live life, enjoy the life you have and choose happiness.

erc commented on Jan 4 13 at 2:38 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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