Nerve Dating Confessions
January 3, 4:53PM Trying to find the strength to reinvent myself and my life after divorce. It's so hard. I really let myself go and it's overwhelming figuring out where to start. CAN RELATE (4) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
Comment (5)

5 comments

Would you be divorced if you hadn't let yourself go? Did you take your spouse for granted?

ex commented on Jan 3 13 at 5:16 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

It doesn't take to much to get it back together, I didn't let myself go, but I quit trying hard. So now I am taking the steps to try again. My bet is that you don't have to reinvent yourself, just start trying again. Get some advice from our friends of the opposite sex.

fgr commented on Jan 3 13 at 6:51 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

start with exercise. it'll not only make you look better and give you more confidence, it'll make you feel better (the endorphins, more energy, etc.).

dfr commented on Jan 3 13 at 6:53 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Don't think, just do. Exercise, yes, def good for bod and brain but really, first cut yourself some slack and things will start to fall into place. Trust me - started this 2 years ago and things got awesome about 6 months ago bc I stopped being hard on myself

@op commented on Jan 4 13 at 12:22 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Interesting discussion here. Ladies, what led you to let yourselves go? Many, many people would love to understand this phenomenon.

ex commented on Jan 4 13 at 2:48 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Leave a Comment


We are ardently committed to free expression, but we do expect Nerve visitors and contributors to interact respectfully and responsibly. Blatant expressions of bigotry, sexism or hatred may be constitutionally protected on the street corner, but they're not cool here.

Nerve Dating Confessions is an anonymous forum for dating-related posts. Posts that attack individuals by name, include personal information, contain hate speech, or are simply unrelated to dating, will be deleted.