Nerve Dating Confessions
January 1, 11:59PM I've been in a relationship for right years. She's unkind to me, treats me poorly so often. I go to sleep crying navy nights -- with her berating me and making fun of my tears. She tells me she's sorry. That she loves me. That she's sorry. But she goes right back to it. She doesn't know I met a woman I'm considering leaving for. One that respects me, loves me, is kind, intelligent, sweet, generous... But I can't make up my mind. Try to fix what's broken or start over. CAN RELATE (3) CAN'T RELATE (4) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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You can't fix it on your own. You have to work on it together and she has to be really committed to changing in order for it to work. Does she respect you as a person? Has she ever cared about your feelings? Finally, do you still love this woman who hurts you? And do you see yourself ever getting to a point where you can trust her again with your tenderest feelings? Because the one thing I would beg you never to do is resign yourself to the status quo. You deserve to be loved, and you certainly don't deserve to live with abuse.

wsh commented on Jan 2 13 at 12:43 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

wsh couldn't have said it better

rsk commented on Jan 2 13 at 12:57 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

fuck all that bro. leave her. can't believe you hadn't had enough balls to break up with her sooner. good luck to ya.

dre commented on Jan 2 13 at 1:05 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

She is an abuser. Your relationship is like a circle of up and down. she abuses you - she is sorry - things are well for a tiny moment and then she abuses you again. This is classic. Either she and you go to therapy - she needs anger management though - and work it out or you leave her and learn that this is an unhealthy relationship. I left mine after 8 years... and I feel so free and happy 3 years after it all. Good Luck.

MIM commented on Jan 2 13 at 4:00 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Dude man up have some poise and leave that bitch.

RG3 commented on Jan 2 13 at 1:59 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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