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January 1, 8:32PM Guy tagged me on Facebook while on our first date. Is this normal or does it seem off? And no he did not ask and my settings stopped it from appearing to all my friends. I would never do that to someone. CAN RELATE (1) CAN'T RELATE (4) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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why are you even facebook friends if it was your first date?

jbl commented on Jan 1 13 at 8:51 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

I am a guy, a guy who doesn't get "scared off" easily. And to me this seems a bit off. Just kind of weird. Not to mention, on a first date (or a 2nd or 3rd...), I don't even get out my phone from the moment I am with a girl to the moment we go our separate days. He is that tied to his Facebook that he had to do it in the middle of a date? Yea, weird.

unc commented on Jan 1 13 at 8:54 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Don't date people you're facebook friends with, unless you're also real enough friends that you know eachothers' boundaries.

sh commented on Jan 1 13 at 9:28 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Maybe it wasn't a romantic date for him but a friendly friend date?

Su commented on Jan 1 13 at 9:46 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Maybe he was proud to be out with a beautiful woman and wanted to let everyone know.

mb commented on Jan 1 13 at 11:03 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Yes, I think it's completely inappropriate and weird. How are you even facebook friends already?

vv commented on Jan 2 13 at 7:12 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

we already know each other. Apparently I've been tagged every single time we've been out together which is a few. And I'm getting already like 50 texts a day including in the middle of the night. I did really start to like him but I think I'm getting very turned off by all this.

op commented on Jan 3 13 at 2:36 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Oh please. Get some real problems. So he likes you! So he's overenthusiastic! So what? If you don't want him, ditch him. Plenty of girls would love a guy who actually gave a damn.

@op commented on Jan 3 13 at 11:18 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Why do I need "real problems"? This is my dating dilemma. Get your own! Hmm, what's wrong with overenthusiastic? How about telling all of our mutual friends that we are in a relationship - so my friends now are inviting us as a couple after one or two dates. Also he acted really entitled to sex already and is being very pushy. I did say he's attractive and I like him but I don't feel like I owe him sex just because he took me on a nice date. He went from kissing to trying to undress me and it backed me off. We drank for NYE and he tried that again and then tried getting into some weird conversation about it and pouted when it didn't go his way but I was drunk and needed to pass out. Not feel pressured. He was literally begging and whining in my ear while I passed out and I had to tell him to leave me alone. I'm just trying to find out if the general populace thinks this goes beyond enthusiasm. Since this person is in my friend group I want to be careful and give him the best possible chance. If it doesn't work out then we have to stay friends. I guess I already know the answer but the hard thing is to figure out what to say to someone who already thinks we are in some relationship after 2 dates.

op commented on Jan 3 13 at 3:13 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

YIKES. This guy is bad news. Does not respect your boundaries. Back away.

bb commented on Jan 5 13 at 10:33 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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