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January 1, 8:55AM I know he cheated on me last night from the way he's acting, but I have no proof. I have never felt this before, I'm not crazy, but I do believe that the fact that my boyfriend did not call me on New Years and turned his phones off all night means he cheated. I don't know what to do. #needadvice CAN RELATE (6) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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Confront him, and when he admits to cheating, eventually, tell him he has lost the right to talk to you. Then dump his shit on the street for homeless people to take. Do not talk to him. Move on.

lj commented on Jan 1 13 at 10:45 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Seriously, ask him, see how he reacts. If he says he was drunk, that's a bullshit excuse.

ReD commented on Jan 1 13 at 11:26 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Even if he didn't cheat, not calling your girlfriend on NYE is pretty lame. Dump him!

kp commented on Jan 1 13 at 11:56 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I agree with kp above, no communication on NYE?? I guess it'd depend on how long you've been together/dating,, I can't see any reason other than an emergency that would excuse him, did he tell you in advance he would be doing something else?

ag commented on Jan 1 13 at 12:28 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

We're in different time zones, so we spoke on my new years and not on his. I confronted him and he basically comforted me and gave me a semi plausible rationale. I can't tell if I'm crazy jealous girlfriend territory or if my gut is right. But he was understanding and didn't get defensive. I'll just be on my guard. I don't know.

KA commented on Jan 1 13 at 1:16 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Dating long distance is hard, I dated someone from another country, so I know,,you have to trust implicitedly

ag commented on Jan 1 13 at 1:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

thanks ag. sometimes I just need to remember that. trust isn't easy.

ag commented on Jan 1 13 at 1:54 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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