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January 1, 4:35AM I feel my being old -fashioned in asking out guys has made me loose many good opportunities where i thought the guy liked me . But then i think if the guy really liked me he would have asked me out himself . What do you think ? CAN RELATE (7) CAN'T RELATE (4) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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Do the wimpy thing. Ask them out for "coffee" as you guys hang around the same area or for a film as you guys hang around the same area, or a cafe/restaurant as you've made plans to hang around that area more as it's cool & you've lost touch with it.

MI commented on Jan 1 13 at 4:43 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I think you need to learn the difference between "loose" and "lose" first of all. As far as your question goes, some guys don't respond well to being pursued by women, but some like it. So, there's not one strategy that works for everybody.

fl commented on Jan 1 13 at 5:49 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

What if i live in a world where asking a guy out for Coffey is taken as very bold and bad. I once had a friend who i had a hunch liked me , but he ended up telling me about a girl he likes in his university and then i spilled out that i like him too and we stopped talking.Since then i haven't approached anybody , neither anybody came up to me and this was like a couple of years back.I just am too afraid too loose my respect or the respect my friend might have for me befor i ask him out for a cooffe:S or tell him how i really feel.

ss commented on Jan 1 13 at 3:29 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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