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December 31, 12:58AM Ladies, what does it mean when you lean closer to a (platonically related) man and your boob presses up against him, and you don't move away? CAN RELATE (0) CAN'T RELATE (4) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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It means we are comfortable with you and we trust you. That's actually a good thing. Could even mean "willing to sleep with you," given the right moment. But be careful, getting out of the "friend zone" and into the "lover zone" means "be willing to show you actually care." That is the ONLY way out of the "friend zone." Be MORE than a friend. But be caring and, hopefully, loving. You won't get NSA fucking from a woman who trusts you, unless she specifically says that's what she wants. And may the Gods help you if you abuse her trust and lie to her in order to fuck and then discard her. Because then she will be a "woman scorned," which is the most dangerous creature on earth.

wsh commented on Dec 31 12 at 1:04 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

It means you're a friend. Boobs touch people when you hug, too. Don't read into it.

uh commented on Dec 31 12 at 2:00 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Thanks. We've known each other for many years, never anything more than affection between us. Trouble is, she's one of the sexiest, most vivacious women I've ever met. And she has beautiful skin, and world-class boobs. Sigh. If only.

op commented on Dec 31 12 at 2:22 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

And if she wanted you, she'd make a move. Don't tell her you're into her or you'll never be friends again. She'll put massive distance between you.

uh commented on Dec 31 12 at 3:26 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Well, from her point of view it can only mean one of two things: that you are a creepy wimp who has been abusively leading her on for years, if she fancies you, or that you are a creepy wimp who has abusively dirty thoughts about her, if she does not fancy you. You cannot win :-).

wer commented on Dec 31 12 at 7:08 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

wer, you seem so bitter. Nothing makes a man less attractive than bitterness.

AD commented on Dec 31 12 at 7:46 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

Her boobs is just too big she didnt notice if it's pressed on to something or someone

Meg commented on Dec 31 12 at 10:47 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

I think you have to look for other signs in addition to an accidental touch. I have a friend who has a thing for me, and though I've told him in so many ways that I just want to be friends, he's not listening to the reality. He keeps hoping, and jumping to conclusions. I really wish he would accept the reality, and not hope anymore.

wel commented on Dec 31 12 at 11:33 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

It means she has boobs,,don't read into it. If she was coming on to you she would have kissed you and rubbed herself on you.

ag commented on Dec 31 12 at 1:29 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Wishful thinking, mostly. She's extended family, but not related by blood. I'll take it as a gesture of trust. Last I heard she has a bf anyway. I will savor the moment though. ;-)

op commented on Dec 31 12 at 4:08 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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