Nerve Dating Confessions

She already knows that you have a not so good intention. Keep chasing

Actually I am a female posing this question but in a way I think you gave me an answer but I want to know will a guy pursue for some time if he's only interested in sex?

Yes, he will. Have had a long term fuck buddy that constantly contacts me trying to hangout. It's been 2 1/2 years, and I'm pretty sure it's just about sex to him, but he hasn't stopped chasing me around yet.

No, I won't. why bother, sex is everywhere.

For some women and men what matters is the chase, and as @LI reports just trying every now and then costs little. So @GUY is right that an hot, uncaring man can get sex anytime he wants, but even one like that can still chase you for 1-2-3 years just hoping to score, simply out of collector's mindset. But the number one question you should be asking yourself is: what good reasons have I given him to want more than sex from me? Because obviously he has given you reason to want more than sex from him, but it happens very rarely that a woman gives a man a good reason to want more than sex from her and to invest in her because of that.

Oh, stfu 941. Stop putting the blame on op. Like it's the op's fault if some sleazeball is chasing her in order to add another notch to his belt. Some men are just horny and closed off to the idea of a real relationship and incapable of appreciating a good woman. Or maybe she's just not his type. Either way, fuck off with your attempt to make the op feel undeserving of a good man. How about men start accepting blame for their own deceitful and manipulative behavior? Asshole.

oh snap ad. I like it. I think that a guy who only wants sex and sees you as easily interchangeable with another woman, will give up quite soon. Either because he finds someone else, or loses interest. That being said, there is this mentality we learn from rom-coms that says you have to keep chasing a woman because her first answer is always bullshit. Persistance and what not. Or, he could really like you, or he could really really really want to fuck you. Doesn't mean that's a bad thing. Presumably if he's chasing you, he's not going to sneak out in the middle of the night.

@ad thanks for your comment you put me at ease of mind here Im trying to give it a go but I keep getting the hazard vibe and as I see your point @941 that you have to give guys a reason to not just want sex I've think have attempted to do just that. I never tried to present myself as just sex and I've expressed that I don't want to be just seen for the physical. I am a shy girl and I'm trying to let out of my comfort zone a little because I get it that it's normal for guys to want to be intimate with you and that's fine but I want it to go beyond that. And @oh thts why I'm trying to not run for the hills immediately because he could be interested sincerely but I don't want to be a fool and allow myself to be manipulated as @ad put it so perfectly thanks guys

How long will a guy chase? As long as it takes.