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May 1, 3:23PM I'm in a 4-year-relationship. I love my girlfriend but can't stop thinking about having sex with other girls, because she is the only one I've slept with so far. Don't know what to do. #needadvice CAN RELATE (7) CAN'T RELATE (1) FLAG FOR ABUSE

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If your girlfriend is good to you and mostly sane, count your blessings and stick with her. The next woman you get involved with will probably be looney as all fuck (odds are this because most chicks are batshit crazy) and you'll regret the decision for the rest of your life, having thrown away something solid for what might feel good for a moment. That is, IF it feels good at all, since so many women are uptight in bed and can't enjoy sex enough to make it pleasurable for you.

wax commented on May 1 12 at 4:46 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Dump That Bitch and find yourself some new pussy to sample. You would be stupid to settle down with the only girl you've ever boned.

DTB commented on May 1 12 at 4:53 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

When you get older the devil you know may be better than the one you don't. But you're young. Look at your life now and extrapolate 20 years into the future. Do you want that life? Also all that shit people say about only regretting the things you didn't do isn't entirely apt. You'll regret so many things you did do and leaving someone wonderful could be one of those things. At the very least talk to your girlfriend about your feelings. This is one of the hard conversations that could move your relationship forward, end it…who knows but it must be had.

SLS commented on May 1 12 at 5:18 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Break up with her and see other people.

grl commented on May 1 12 at 7:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

If you can't stop thinking about having sex with other girls, you don't love your girlfriend. You might like her a whole fucking lot, but you don't LOVE her.

tru commented on May 1 12 at 10:23 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

@tru, I disagree. If he can't stop himself from fucking other girls, he doesn't love his girlfriend. If he can't stop himself from thinking about it, he has a penis. @op, just let the thoughts drift by.

EM commented on May 2 12 at 12:01 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

@EM, I stand by what I said. When you're in LOVE, other women don't exist. What doesn't exist, can't be thought about sexually.

tru commented on May 2 12 at 8:07 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

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