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April 29, 9:04AM if your long distance boyfriend goes out to party on a saturday night with his friends and doesnt text you untill 4.30 am.. is that still okay? im trying not to freak out . CAN RELATE (1) CAN'T RELATE (2) FLAG FOR ABUSE
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Need more context. What is the reason for freaking out? Does he text you every night by, say, midnight? Does he have a history of being super flirty with others?

KE commented on Apr 29 12 at 11:49 am FLAG FOR ABUSE

How old are you? U do know that LDR's never seem to work out rite? He's out, being a guy..can't confirm or deny what he's up to but seriously, u know deep down inside what he's doing..stick w that.. : )

duh commented on Apr 29 12 at 1:10 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

im 26.. its been really good so far.. just out of the blue he goes out and i can tell he feels super guilty about it cuz he's being SUPER nice to me, making sure i feel loved.. but then doesnt really txt me all night like he said he would.. i just think guys only go out for ONE reason basically.. but i wont freak out. i trust him. ill go with that.. thnx both of you for your perspective.

OP commented on Apr 29 12 at 1:25 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

you don't sound like someone who should be in a LDR if you're going to freak out just because your boyfriend has gone out with his friends...

iii commented on Apr 29 12 at 2:43 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

Maybe it means that he had a better time with his friends than he thought he would and lost track of time. Please be careful, because this kind of insecurity will bring down any relationship (LDR or not). Also, @duh - some LDRs do work out. Mine did. :-)

SI commented on Apr 29 12 at 6:10 pm FLAG FOR ABUSE

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